If you want to be really successful in whatever you want to come up with you definitely shouldn't give up on trying!
Let's be completely sincere. How many times do you think about being mean to the others just because it may be funny in some sort of twisted way?
The third level of communication is about that truth.
Talk about your ideas. In these conversations I begin to reveal more details about me. They can be political ideas, about society or about how in my way of thinking the things should work. This level is very mental and consists of not involving the others. Therefore, it can become a productive talk made of monologues, since it is not necessarily about talking about the others. It is more personal and subtle yet only ideas!. On the other hand, we cannot forget that the fourth one is reserved for the closest friends and family so at this level will not be concluded most important and privet subjects.
Be original, be respectful but first of all be spontaneous!
And you will never be considered dull.
Have a nice week!